Going to 5 month of breastfeeding and it is really not easy.
I have no problem breastfeeding my firstborn and second born, it was mainly
because I was an exclusive pumping mummy. I realized it is much easier to pump
on schedule. Coping between a full time demanding job and part time online
shop, plus 2 older kids and a baby that latch on demand at home, I am totally
exhausted every day. To make my hard
work worth, I decide to blog about my experience on exclusive pumping and latch
and pump.
I have exclusive pump for my 1st 2 kids for 8
months and 22 months respectively. I find it is easier if I just pump out the
milk for baby, but with 3rd baby and no maid, I decided to try
direct latching during my maternity leave.
I remember when I started breastfeeding; it is very tough in
the early stage when I need to pump every 2.5hr for the first month. It gets
better when supply start to kick in. Facing engorgement and sore nipples from
pumping which can really make me cry and curse. Cold cabbage is used to ease
the engorgement when I started breastfeeding my 3kids. I need to be careful
when I use the cabbage as it will decrease the supply much, so each time I
cannot use it too long and I cannot use it too frequent.
After the supply kick in about 4-7days, things get better,
really. With my mom helping out to look after the baby, I can pump on schedule.
It takes load of discipline to pump on schedule and I have not skip midnight
pumping. This really helps to build up the supply.
As a pumping mummy, I get to know how much does baby drinks.
As a first time mommy back in year 2008, I can quite paranoid guessing if my
baby is drinking enough; does she pee and poop enough per day. With she is
drinking from a bottle, it is more straight-forward. I will record down how
much she drinks every day.
Also I get to build up some stash for rainy days, for
example when I am out of town or when I fall sick, supply dropped. So long, I continue
to pump and I don’t really have to worry of my supply
Of course, exclusive pumping means I need to drag the pump
bag around and finding place to pump whenever I am out. Pump set, cooler bag,
and a diaper bag, it is a lot of thing to carry when we are out with baby. If
we are lazy, we have to limit our timing outside, maybe going to nearby
shopping mall for dinner and an evening walk near our neighborhood, pump before
we leave the house and rush back before my next pumping session. I am quite
lucky that I am over-supply for my 1st 2 kids and I am able to drag
the pumping session to 6hr interval by the 6th month. Else I doubt I
can make it to 22 month of pumping.
However, like most exclusive pumping mommies, we will like
baby to latch. Especially after exclusively pump for 1st 2 children,
I can really love to try latching baby, and I am very thankful that I make it! Thanks
to the support I get from facebook breastfeeding mummies group which really
keep motivated me to latch more and pump on. Now I am latching him at home and
pumping at work. I am glad that I am able to build up stash for him in case I
fall sick and my supply drop. Of course again, there is times that I will find
it too tired and will wish that I can pump out for him especially after I
started work but that is only a small moment as I simply enjoy the bonding I
have with him. It is amazing when everything cannot calm him except my boobs,
and when he unlatch, he will smile at me.
Maybe I never experience this with my 2 kids, it means very special to
me now.
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