Maidless day is coming

Haven't been updating my blog. So busy after a job change and house moving. Finally we have shifted to our new home for 1 mth plus. Both kids are happy with their new home and they are excited and able to wake up early to travel to grandma house. Surprise me!!!

But I can foresee a nightmare soon with the maid leaving us. Gregory has to go childcare as my mom cannot cope with 2 kids. So it will be a nightmare for Gregory and me. Worried if gregory can cope in
Childcare, falling sick, eating well etc. Also I don't know he think when he has to go Childcare while Charis doesn't has to.

Last night both darlings were watching a video clip of Charis Esther day performance. Gregory point to the video and told me this: "Mama, next time I go to jiejie school"
I felt bad hearing that especially he used to say: "I don't want to go to school" whenever we told him to go school until now he finally say that he will go school but he will be in different school from Charis after we send the maid back. Charis will continue at her church kindergarten while Gregory will start his Childcare. I can't help to hate the maid, because of her greed, I need to change my plan.

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